Magda Da Silva

When I was asked to do a guest blog about whatever subject I desire, my mind initially went crazy! I mean, there is so much in my brain. So, what do I write about? I feel that, although, I did touch on some of my favorite parts on the Podcast, there is still so much more that I love and consider my favorites. So, since this blog is all about me and what I want to share, why not let you get to know what my passions are, what brings me joy in life, and share a bit more of my favorite parts of this thing we call life. So here we go, and I hope you like how this mind of mine works. Some of you may or may not know me, but you’ll learn more about what excites me and what fuels me on a day-to-day basis.

I am someone who truly feels grateful for many little things in life that end up being huge to me. I find that one of my favorite qualities in a human is a person who is “selfless”. Now when I say selfless, it doesn’t mean to only do for others and never think of yourself, or that one’s personal wants and needs are not important. I’m referring to when out of nothing less than just pure kindness, for no special occasion or reason, someone is just thoughtful and considerate to others, even when they get nothing in return. Actually, as a giver let me clarify. You do get something beautiful in return when you are selfless. You get an overwhelming feeling of joy especially when it is coming from a genuine place, no strings attached. You feel happy that you brightened someone’s day. Haven’t you ever had someone buy you something out of nowhere and they say, “Hey, I was shopping, happened to see this and thought of you.”? No matter how big or small the gift is, it’s the fact they thought of me, took time out of their day, and made it about me even if for a moment. Being selfless doesn’t mean you even need to spend money; it can be simply something as a kind gesture. Here are a few examples, it is a selfless act to compliment someone, to change your plans to accommodate others, to plan a party for someone, stay late at work to help a team member finish their task. It’s someone cooking for you because they knew you had a long day. I find that there is something magical about the smile on someone’s face when you step outside of yourself and do something for someone else. At times it’s not a smile, it’s happy tears and or genuine shock because they cannot believe someone thought of them. The thing is, what could have been the simplest, selfless gesture on your part, could mean the world to others. You never know what people are going through and the impact your act of kindness had on them. I have said this to many through the years, but I truly believe God did not place us on this Earth to be just about “me, me, me,” “what I like”, “what I want”, “what I need.” I feel if we all looked out for others, were considerate to others, shared with others, and took care of each other even when it doesn’t benefit us, society would be better for it.

I also wanted to share that being a mom is by far my most favorite thing in life, PERIOD. I was made for this, I prayed for this, and I THANK GOD for our children. I take my responsibility and influence in their life seriously. I can honestly say it is the greatest joy of my life. I am not here to try to tell them who they should be, but to guide them into being their true authentic selves and seek their happiness, their way. I believe God choose me for them for a reason, and it’s to be able to guide them. There is nothing in life that could ever have me love them any less. Literally the purest form of love ever. An undeniable connection not just by blood, but by our souls.

Finally, to my husband thank you for the blended family we have created. For always accepting me for the social butterfly that I am. As you always say “you always got something going on” LOL. No matter what, you let me be me. In 22 years, I’ve never heard “don’t go.” Instead I hear “drive safe.” You later check in to make sure I reach my destination and always tell me have fun. Exactly at this very moment as I am writing this, I just realized something I never thought about, EVER, until now. You have shared me with so many people! I have a huge family, so many rely on me. Aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings etc. I have taken on the responsibility of caring for my parents this past year in certain ways. I am very involved with my friends, too. I am many people’s go to for many reasons. You know this, always accepted it, and never complained. My favorite thing about you is you are my biggest supporter in every way and every aspect in life. Both personal and professional. I don’t know what I would do if I didn’t have you to support me, raising our kids, and for championing me while I am out helping others outside of our home. Grateful for how you ensure I am emotionally good, when at times all my responsibilities get overwhelming, by simply reminding me that “I got this.” That if anyone can do it, I can. Another beautiful example of a selfless act. I can only hope to have been as supportive to you, as you have been for me all of these years.

Hope you all didn’t get tired of reading me, ramble on about some of my favorite things. I can assure you, I even surprised myself. How it started is not how I expected it to end, but per usual, I just wrote what organically came to my mind and heart at the time. Looking forward to reading future guest posts and hopefully continuing to share positivity into this world.